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writes: I'm getting feelings I've never felt before when I'm with him, but I know that being with him is not a good move for my total wellness. Where I live its not considered a big deal and every 4/5 people do. Its a very big party town. I'm the 1/5 that doesn't smoke. He does and I know those aren't really the type of people I wanna surround myself with. We both like each other and when I'm with him there's an indescribable feeling that I know he feels too, but I don't want to have any bad influences put on myself. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Hi, well if you really like him then you shouldnt worry about petty things like smoking, it shouldn't come between you. My boyfriend smokes and i don't however we comprimise he doesn't smoke around me this way he is not bothering me, you make your own choices so it shouldn't influence you. I understand the smell is of putting however you both will have to make comprimises. Noone can tell you what to do so, if you want it to work comprimise with him. If he tries to force you maybe he isn't right for you. But if it is to ever work you have to except each other for you are. Hope my advice helps its my first ever reply so kind regards.
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