A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need to know if my ex still has feelings for me and that she has blocked me out her life. We broke up 8 months ago and went out for 6 months but she live down south now. anyway it all started when we had an argument 1 month ago cause she told me that she had a boyfriend and i told her that i did not believe her because the week before that she found out i had a girlfriend and she got angry and told me she has found someone else even though she was joking but the day after that she apologised but the week after that thats when she told me she had a boyfriend and i was thinking she was joking again. This time she wasnt and she even told me that he is much better than me and why would she tell me this and i told her that she wasnt being very nice. then i found out she had deleted me from msn but not blocked me because i was getting on her nerves even though she is the one who always talks to me. Aweek later i broke up with my new girlfriend and i told my ex and we started talking again like friends and told me she would give me another chance and she starts telling me that her new boyfriend keep tellig her what to do. so she sounded like she was not happy about her new relationship. Three days later i found she has broke up with the boyfriend so i think she is trying to copy me because why would she get a boyfriend so quickly when i started a new relationship and when i broke up with the new relationship my ex did the same with hers. then about a week later i found out she has blocked me from msn for no reason and i have sent her a friend request on facebook but she has declined it 5 times. I don't understand why would she block me and stop talking to me when she told me she would give me one more chance. Does she need space cause she still has feelings for me or does she not want to be friends anymore what is wrong with her. please help
View related questions:
broke up, facebook, msn, my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (25 November 2009):
Sounds like she was really upset when she found out you had a girlfriend. Back off, let her cool down and maybe you can try calling her in time. MSN and Facebook are too removed. Phone call is better.
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 November 2009):
She doesn't. Her mind is now made up. Let her go. There's a reason she's your ex and the reason is she's not the girl for you. Blocking you five times means she's really not interested. So don't waste any more time on her. You've got to move on.
...............................
A
female
reader, gypc044 +, writes (25 November 2009):
First off not wanting to be mean, but no she does not want to be with you. at the time she told you this she was saying it just in case she did not get back with the other person or had not met anyone, and so to keep you from finding someone else or going back to your girlfriend, it was better for her to make you think something was there till she found out if her person still wanted her. It would be better for you to move on no matter how how it will be (as I know your heart will hurt) but in the long run you will be a happier person as if you were to go back you would be amazed at how much you two will argue for the fact that there would be no trust between you two, as in the back of your minds you would both constantly be wondering if the other is cheating. Trust me been there done that with my ex, and we did the same thing, when we broke up with our mates we would talk to each other and we would both be saying we were not with someone, when in reality we were. Being in love or with a person for awhile it affects our hearts and when they are gone we feel like we cant go on, it is not that we will die or fall apart it is the fear of being alone, but trust me you will find someone soon, and you will tell yourself wow I made the right choice. keep yourself busy for awhile and in time your heart will feel better. Hope this helped.
...............................
|
