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*endra0589
writes:Okay I met a guy about a week ago through my friend's boyfriend. We had been talking for about a week but we didn't know how each other looked. I mean he was so sweet that I immediately became attached. We met up friday and everything went downhill. We he first looked at me I knew right then something was wrong. I never felt attractive and I explained basically my whole life story with him about that. I knew he wasn't attracted to me and I then felt uncomfortable. He on the other hand was very attractive. He was nice and polite and asked me if I wanted anything to drink I said "No". But he was so quiet and wouldn't even look at me instead stared at the tv. I asked him why was there something wrong with me. He said no but got angry as if me acting nervous was making him mad. He then made up an excuse about having to help his friend move so I went home. He told me he would call me but never did. I called him yesterday and a female picked up his phone claiming to be his girlfriend. I knew she wasn't I believed he did that to get rid of me. I just feel so hurt right now. Why would he act this way without giving me an explanation? Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish +, writes (13 December 2009):
 you know, sometimes chemistry can be okay when you're on the phone or online, but i've had experiences where you kind of 'talk out' your attraction...as in, you use up every thing you have in common through the phone and then when it's time for the date, awwwwkwwarrrd, ya got nothing left to talk about! Alternatively, he may be really socially awkward with girls in person, versus being on the phone. I also know people that kind of zone out when they see there's a tv at hand. social interaction definitely gets limited that way. so, also a possible prob. it's possible he may not have been physically that attracted to you, but most guys are super attracted to confidence and i would think your lifestory of underconfidence would definitely be a turnoff.
anyway, who knows why he wasn't into it, no point in beating a dead horse, you'll find someone else that's into you. no fears!
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