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writes:I don't understand why guys appear to not be interested in me! I'm 16 years old and have had 2 bf's, and never even been on a date with an other guys.All my friends at school have all the guys interested in them and at work, all the guys are interested in all the other girls.I don't understand why! I'm pretty, in fact I believe I'm very pretty, I'm nice and caring, yet guys just don't seem to go for people like me?I admit I have had quite al ot of older guys interested in me, like 18 to 20 year olds, but none my age! Why is that? Is it that older guys just are interested in more somoene like me?The guys I like, only seem to go for all the girls who are obsseed with fashion and wearing mini skirts, and picking on others with jokes and who talk like they are so dumb! Yet they are so popular. I just don't get why.This really gets me down, like soooo much. I often get very down about it. It makes me feel like I'm not a good person and have nothing anyone would like in me.And oh the 2 guys I have gone out with, the first one was a drinker, smoker and drug taker, and he was always getting into trouble, so he wasn't right for me and the second one, well he was always paying more attention to my friends and they were always flirting. My friends knew EVERYTHING about him, but iI knew hardly a thing as he just wouldnt open up to me, which I found odd as all my frineds can. Does anyone have any ideas of why this is so? And do you have any ways I can change the situation I'm in? Thankyou so much for taking the time out to read this :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't plunge straight into relationships, in fact im totally against it. I always think that being friends first is best, so you get to know the person and can have a better idea if hes the right person for you. And most of all, your relationship should turn out better if you have a good friendship as the base of it.
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reader, ask aunty heather +, writes (1 January 2006):
in order to understand boys and men i suggest you make friends with a few of them. then you can see why they do things. im 36 and i still dont understand their logic, but i have observed a lot of them and i know how some of them tick. dont plunge straight into a relationship. there is more to a relationship than looks and status. what kind of boy would you like to meet? when you decide what human qualities you find attractive in a boy it will be easier to choose a more suitable one who isnt a troublemaker.boys have heaps more respect for girls who hold out and dont give too much away too quickly. they are more likely to behave in a respectful way towards you if you feel good about yourself and you dont need a man to bolster your confidence. men like assertive girls who are sure of themselves. just remember when you leave school dating will get easier.your teenage years are rpobobly the hardest years youll ever have in life as you are struggling to find out who you are.
kids at school can be horrible. its all about popularity and who you hang out with. those kids who are popular at school often dont do well in the real world.
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