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writes:My girlfriend dumbed me coz she says I wasn’t serious about her and I was showing her love. I told her that if that’s what she wanted it’s okay. Then I asked her if she has found someone n she said no. That was on Boxing Day. Then I said if they no one how about we fix our problems to which said she has given me enough time n I’m showing no changes, she want to settle n I always give her false hopes. Then three days ago she told me that she is with someone who makes her happy n she nolonger have any feelings for me, but she hasn’t made any decision yet.The following morning she called me in the morning asking me to buy her data. She never bothered to say thank you. That even she called me I didn’t answer her call. The she sent a text saying “ sorry if I’m troubling you, can you send me a copy of my CV in word form” to which I replied her, telling her that indeed she was troubling (disturbing) me and I told her to leave me alone. After a few hours she deleted me from her contact list she didn’t block me. Then yesterday she added me back n posted a status where she was sitting with a guy. But she covered the guy’s face with a comment I love you. What does this mean ?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (10 January 2024):
 It means you are allowing her to live, rent free, inside your head, when all she is doing is yanking your chain and messing with you.
Delete her, block her, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2024): It means you are allowing her to live, rent free, inside your head, when she is just yanking your chain and messing with you.
Delete her, block her, move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2024): Hi
Sorry to say that i think you have been with a cheat and one who is still trying to use you. You will get another lover that is truthful and will make you happy. This one is manipulating you and will bring misery if you allow her to continue. She said goodbye so close the door permanently, save yourself from a lot of trouble and stress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2024): What else could it mean?
That you are banging your head against a wall because you did not see this coming, and have possibly, like a few of us grew up believing, believed that she was with you because she had seen something good in you that she'd spare no effort to hang on to in the relationship.
One possible model for what is happening is that you have in fact all along been perceived as an object whose level of utility is rated, a caretaker, but had not been quite aware of this. Yes, quite possibly, you're dealing with at the very least an egocentric, if not a narcissist.
Narcissism is a lot more common than you'd think. Case in point, the Western mainstream media will presently absolutely not let you find out just how prevalent it is, especially when it pertains to a whole nation of murderous bloodthirsty land-grabbers.
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