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male
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36-40,
*jekim
writes:You guys helped me out a lot with my last problem. I was getting ghosted a bunch and kinda had to accept I wasn’t very datable. (quick recap: 35, lives back at home, works at a comic store, wanted to be a comic book artist, never had a girlfriend, paying off student loans) It was very helpful to see what I had done wrong. Recently I had a girl I really liked, she was kind and very sweet, as a customer at my shop she came by every couple of weeks and seemed to like chatting with me. She had missed me a couple of times and left me a very nice handwritten note saying she had missed the last times I wasn’t there and that she looked forward to seeing me next time. I Got her number and tried to text her, to see if maybe she would like to maybe hang out talk outside of work. Then she vanished…I have no idea what happened. I tried contacting her. Texted her and even tried to see if she was okay, I even left a note for her, but she never picked it up.This happens all the time. I felt like maybe the handwritten note was an indicator she enjoyed talking to me or wanted to hang out, I feel like I keep misreading signs or signals. I keep getting ghosted so the problem must be me I think. I’m told I'm cute and handsome and kind all the time, but nothing really comes of it.I'm just lonely, even when I'm with family and friends.I explain all this to ask, what is a good way to get over this? Kinda, what's a good way to kinda, get rid of feelings like this? I have hobbies, I have friends. Ive just never had romantic relationships. What’s a good way to not feel this bad and be able to just not care about it anymore? Like if a friend wanted to be a boxer, but kept failing after 15 years and never once won a match, how could you get him to move on from boxing? It's just not gonna ever happen if it didn’t happen the last 15 years hahaI cant even bring myself to throw away the letter she wrote me, I might need to start with that I guess
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