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writes:This is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-afraid-he-will-be-gone-by-the-time-i-get-home-today.htmlYour Open QuestionShow me another » Broke up with my partner not sure how to feel?I wrote in a couple of times last week about my boyfriend. He was living in my house and we broke up. He stayed for a full week and I couldn't take it any longer and on Sunday I asked him if he still loved me(because I still love him) and he said no. I asked him to leave yesterday and he was extremely angry. I tried to explain for my own sanity I couldn't keep him in the house. He doesn't seem to understand this and really hates me now.I am going away for the weekend and he is coming home to collect his stuff and staying a few days. I don't know how to feel about this. I feel numb. I had a little cry last night but I am just wondering around today. Will this pain ever go away especially because I love him so much and worry about him.. Some Advice please
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): He is behaving very selfishly indeed. He says that he doesn't love you but is quite happy to stay in your home. Ask him to take all of his things and leave for good. It will hurt like hell knowing he is gone for good but it WILL get better. You deserve more than this. You will also never meet the right person while he is hanging around.Try and keep busy - when i split with my ex, which was a terribly destructive relationship, i started taking classes, exercising more, making sure i made plans with friends etc. Talk about how you are feeling with friends, but be careful you don't go overboard and make that the sole topic of conversation - it's not fair on your friends and not enjoyable for you either.Exercising is great - i bought some running shoes and try and run every other day. Sometimes i enjoy it and look foirward to it, other days i don't want to go but i am ALWAYS glad i did - the body releases feel-good chemicals when you exercise.Look after yourself, eat well, focus on something positive, a goal, holiday etc and things will get better. You must cut all ties with this man however otherwise you will never be happy.
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