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writes:I'm 16 and I live in Florida. My family and I just went to our hometown in Wisconsin to visit old family and friends. My dad wanted to visit his old highschool buddy so when we got to his house, I immediately hit it off with his 16 year old son. We went down to his room to hang out, I'm very good at cod so I suggested playin that and he agreed. He found it "awesome" that I was good at it and we started talking even more. Turns out we had a lot on common. I really liked him and he told me that he really liked me. When I had to lead that night I gave him a hug and he asked "where is my kiss?" so I gave him a little kiss. We began texting the next day and he was super sweet and charming. We both have 4th generation iPod touches so we did FaceTime once until 3am. He told how beautiful I am and he loved my smile and blah blah blah. He was really nice. We decided we wanted to see eachother one more time before I left. The day I was due to go back to Florida (two days after we met) I talked my dad into going back to see them. We went back and it was a little awkward at first but then he started kissing me. I had told him before how far I've gone with a guy (only standard making out) and he completely understood. Until we began makin out and he started pressuring me to let him do more. He was trying to take off my pants and pull down my shirt but I kept taking his hand and saying no. He begged a little but then finally gave it up and we got back to making out. Then suddenly, his hand was in my shirt and under my bra. I was surprised but I didn't say anything because I figured if I let him do that then he would stop with everything else and that was the last time i would see him for a while. So we continued and then it was time for me to leave. We didn't even hang out at all, all he did was make out with me. I felt a little odd about that. Then he wouldn't even walk me to the door when I had to go. I though he really liked me but then I just left feeling taken advantage of and with a huge hickie on my neck. We texted for a little after that but he was being all boring and stopped texting after like 20minutes without saying bye. He texted me he next day around dinner time sayin good morning... We only have a one hour time difference. Weird. He said he just woke up. But anyway, we talked and he was being nice again and interesting and talking about how he really liked me. Then he asked if we could FaceTime and I said yes because I was almost positive he was going to ask me to be his girlfriend. So we FaceTimed and no more then 30 seconds into the chat, he said "actually I'm watching a movie and I'll call you back on FaceTime in an hour" and he hung up before I said anything. I was sad. Three hours rolled by and he hadn't called or texted. So I texted him asking if he wanted to play xbox live. Ha said his brother was watching a movie so he couldnt. So I told him i would be on xbox most of the night and to tell me when his brothers movie finished and I would send him a game invite. He never texted me. Never got online. Haven't heard from him since. That was three days ago and still nothing. I haven't texted him either because I feel like that is the boy's job to text the girl. Accept he did like my status on Facebook so I know he is alive and apparently looking at my facebook. But has he just completely stopped talking to me out of nowhere? I thought we really had something but I don't know what is going though his head. I'm taking this pretty personally and I miss him so please help. Thank you!
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reader, Stephanie1 +, writes (2 January 2011):
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All those answers are so helpful :D even though my feelings are hurt, now I know I'm better off not having anything to do with him. Thanks everyone 3
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (2 January 2011):
Yeah he seemed to have just wanted a physical relationship when you were with him and now that he knows there's a slim chance he'll be getting sex he's not keen on putting any more effort into getting you. Its better to let it be and move on.
I'm sure it hurts, but it will get better the sooner you convince yourself that you're better off :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): i dont know how to say this nicely but HE TOTALLY USED YOU dont worry ive been through it before you just have to forget about him and start hitting on another guy and im so sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011): Don't bother sweetie long distance relationships are just asking for it, close distance ones are hard enough as it is. A 16 yr old girl is eager for first love while a 16 yr old boy is eager for any sex he can possibly get. Don't be taken advantage of and don't wait around for some insensitive jerks calls. Get out and live your life.
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reader, lexii  +, writes (2 January 2011):
im sorry to have to tell you ut he is only interested in sex in my opinion. you made it clear to him that you didnt want to go further than making out ut he ignored your wishes. if he does get in contact, id advise you not to reply.
Lexii xxx
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