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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok what do u think about these answers? Im the most honest person you could meet.id never lie you.i tell you everything. I hate lying. These are some of the things my boyfriend says. But i just dont trust him. He never tells me thing important unless i ask. Ive heard him lie before to his boss, mates etc! And some things when i look back yet dont make sence! Its just allsorts of things i think he thinks hes clever. I dont trust him on nites out as he was a womaniser,player.male slag. Before i met him. because i am never aloud to go out with him or with him and his friends in his town. We live in different towns. But he seems to get pleasure from telling me all the women that are after him.which makes me feel so hurt. But then he says i only have eyes 4you. I love u so much. But the strange thing is if i go out with my friends.the first thing he would text me in the morning ir did u pull? How many drinks did u get brought you? This doesnt even come into my mind i know i dont even look at anyone! I think this is what he does on nights out and he thinks thats what im doing as he says he knows what women r like. Do u agreed with what i think? He drinks so much. when hes out and forgets the whole nite! Apart from he seems to tell me when he aint got no top on and women r all over him. He says to me he could write a book on how to pull a women. It hurts i just seem to be back here.cooking his tea.running his bath. Bringing breakfast in bed 4 him before work. On the 3or 4 day a wk that i would see him. I just feel like its me him and his mates and another life in this relationship. I feel i have to ask him to see me and do stuff around what he doing nights out etc! But when i do see him he says things like. I love u so much ive never felt like this before. I miss u so much when im not with u. I know how lucky im am.Yet im so unhappy! But he so convincing! He wont change i know.his actions speak louder than his words! But i just seem to hang on. Cos i seem to think i aint worth any better. Cos he made me feel worthless.
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reader, rodent man +, writes (8 February 2009):
Hi thereIf I was you I would see the back of him, he playing games and has the best of both worldsWho knows what he is doing on his nites out --if he cannot remember ( conveniently) then it could be anythingSorry to say but hes no good for you--if he was really loving you he would not be doing the things he is. Not easy but thats life --never easy--especially relationships. But find someone that will love you and be there for you---hes out there somewheregood luck
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