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writes:I have been with my partner for 7 years 2 years ago we got married.After the first two years everything was fine except she lied about finance things. Then I found out she had got a loan that she had fallen behind on and so I helped pay it off. Then year later she tried to pay off a loan using my cheques and my signature. Then another year later she had got a loan that not only lost us our car but the payments were so high she used the rent money to pay so we lost the rented appartment. When confronted she said it was all for us and couldn't talk to me about it... I don't trust her any more I have told her this. I am concern about what she is up to behind my back?She said she wouldn't do it again but thats 3-4 times now. Because I miss trust her about finance what else could she be lying about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): Hi hun,
where is the trust in your marriage, hunny you really need to talk with her, she cant talk with you about it you are her husband.. If it is all for you as a couple then why not be truthfull and why behind your back.. you lost your car and your home how could this be of benifit to you both? Is there anything to show for the money? My ex was like this every week there would be another letter to say yet another loan company had found him just after we married, I had to sell my home to pay all the debt and it still continued with nothing to show for five thousand here ten thousand there it was the most awfull time and my 18yr old son is still paying the last of it off for me 7yrs later sweetheart dont go through this it is not a marriage... You are supposed to be able to trust the person you love and be happy not worried all the time, not only has your wife lied to you she has forged yor signature, this is very serious and she needs help and hunny so do you.. I really understand how terrible this makes you feel dont let this carry on do something now, The little money i had left i had to put in my mothers bank account behind his back this is no way to live when you love someone its soul destroying. I do hope you can work something out and i hope life gets better for you very soon TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXX
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