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writes:This guy I've liked for a long time has a girlfriend and they've been going together for about six weeks. It seems that they are having alot of relationship problems and he is looking for me. I backed off completely when they became committed - I didn't even talk to him. I really like this guy and would love to step in now to see where things stand with him and his girl but don't know if it's right thing to do. Should I stay backed off til things settle down, or what? Please help me do this right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): I see no problem in you letting him know of your interest in him. There were women who did that with me when I was first dating my wife. They knew my girlfriend and I just politely told them that I was currently dating someone else and thanked them and told them that I was flattered. A couple of women did the same to me when I asked them for a date. They told me no in a flattering and nice way. I see nothing wrong with asking, but it is not right to keep persueing if the other person says that he is not interested or that he is in a committed relationship. My wife broke up with her current boyfriend the day after our first date many years ago. He may be looking for a new realtionship and waiting for someone to show interest in him.
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