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writes:Myself and husband have sex at least 3 or 4 times a week and I dress up, do oral and get on top.I think the sex is ok but I have had better with one man from years ago which I enjoyed more cos of what he done to me. my husband says the sex is ok too but I think he would like me to do lots of other different positions but he would not tell me this. he told me I should only do what I want to do and if we enjoy it then that's fine but after his porn use of many years he as seen stuff I haven't as I don't watch that kind of thing and never thought he would watch it. It made me feel I was not good enough and he told me he watched it because of the sex and I think he still watches it when Im out. If I did what all the women do to the men would I still be good enough in bed for him.I don't want to know what other people do and want to do what I want in bed but now I feel I have to try other things to keep him happy. we are in our 5Os and he told me sex was better with me then his exs but I don't know if that was to make me feel good. I don't think he worries at all if he is making me happy in bed but I do with him.
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reader, sweetheart_ella  +, writes (21 February 2022):
you should suggest to your husband to try what it was the previous guy did. And it's possible he's watching porn because you aren't doing some of the things he likes (because he hasn't asked you or you can't such as deep throat)
You should flat out ask him what stuff he wants to try because I suspect you doing things to him is better than him watching porn and masterbating. Try exploring on your own while he's on his back and see what he might like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2021): You buried your question... I think it's
"If I did what all the women do to the men would I still be good enough in bed for him?"
You should talk to him... Ask him what he wants and tell him what you like.
I don't think many men expect their wives to do everything they see in porn. Good luck!
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