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writes:I have this gut feeling that my BF is receiving calls from a womam he use to date - not that he is intersted, but I dont' think he's telling me all the details for fear that I'll get mad. He always tells me that he'll be honest and let me know if something like that happens but for some odd reason, i don't think he would as he'd rather avoid conflict with me. Should I just blow it off and hope that he will or should I be worried that something is going on. Reply to this Question
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reader, elsie  +, writes (2 April 2007):
 oooohhh dear was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt till i read about him dissapearing to take a call.did he talk at all infront of you or did he dissapear the minute the number came up?like most of the answers i say look at his phone.men are notorious for not covering their tracks.its really bloody hard but next time any odd calls,texts come up id keep my cool and ask to see the phone.maybe say something like 'i know im being daft but just for my sake can i see that,youll soon have your answer if he gets aggressive or silly.and honey speaking from experience be very very prepared to find something you dont like.hope im wrong.good luck.
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (24 March 2007):
 As woman to woman....and as much as I hate to say this, go with your gut! I firmly believe "we" have that gift to "just know" when something is NOT right! I do pray I am wrong for your sake, however, he is NOT guilty until you can prove it. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): If i have a gut feeling then it is a good indication that something isn't right and it think you know this too. Why do they have to keep in touch? I'm sorry but i wouldn't be happy about this one either. I don't see any harm in having a look on a partner's phone. They don't like it if there is anything to hide. My bloke certainly doesn't mind if i have a look at him, he hasn't anything to hide and neither do i. Talk to him about it and ask him more about these phone messages.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Hi there! Is there any other reason you suspect that he is not honest with you? If not, you may be reading into things too much. This is maybe not possible but maybe you could look at his phone when he leaves is someplace and to a quick scan to ease your mind.BUT be prepared as you might find something you dont like.
A lot of people think that you shouldnt look at a partners mobile phone, but I say, why not? Its not like its a diary. If the people he calls and recieves calls from is a big secret then is there any trust in the relationship and if not, is there a relationship at all?
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reader, creamepie +, writes (22 March 2007):
Most of the time if you have agut feeling then your right but as long as your aware you can be prepared . If you really want to find out call that number from his phone and see how she answer that will tell you alot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do want to mention also that he got a call when he was with me, said it was work related and left for 1/2 hour to call back, and was being very loving after.
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