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writes:My family hate hanging out with me. Ever since i moved away to college and come home at the weekends I feel like a completely different person. We watch the same movies and they dont get all the jokes and stuff that i get. Though there is a lot of us I feel like they take me for granted. we dont properly chat about anything that goes on during the week either at home or when i'm at college. We dont argue but i know they talk about me. I have a physical disability and i already knew before that some of them didnt like to talk to me in public. they feel ashamed of me and its really bad seeing as i didn't cause it to happen to myself. I'm smart and doing an hard course in college that requires me to study a lot and I dont go out during the week. I dont want to argue or have a disagreement with any of them I'm just wondering how do I get through the next few days with them? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): I have a very dysfunctional family as well being a half sister I feel very isolated. I went to university and ever since I hardly see them, they never come round and it seems like the time I needed to study caused distance between us. We have even linked on Facebook and hardly talk.
I'm just going to get on with my live and not force myself on them. If they want to see me they know where I am.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): My family is like this with me. We never talk about anything that means anything and basically I have more involved conversations with strangers I meet randomly than I get to have with them. It is hard and it hurts, but the only thing you can do is smile, be polite and wait it out. I know it sounds horrible, and it is horrible to be in, but after years of dealing with this with my own family I have learnt that it never changes. Good Luck
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