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female
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26-29,
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writes: So my friend is trying to set me up on a date with this guy she's friends with at college. She said we're going to be going on a date with her and her boyfriend too so it isnt that bad and at first I agreed but now i'm having secong thoughts.We've been talking, getting to know each other, we've only been talking for like 6-7 days and he's calling me 'baby' and it's kind of weird. Also, the last time one of my friends tried to set me up with a lad it was really awkward and it turned out to be awful and ridiculously awkward. I dont think i want to go on the date, but i dont know how to tell my friend, or the guy. I dont like letting people down. Help please?! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Babs1 +, writes (7 February 2012):
Just tell your friend and/or the guy your not interested. The better you get at voicing your feelings/thoughts the easier life gets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): Look you're 16 or 17, and I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but you really just need to be honest and say that you are not interested. This guy sounds like a creep if he's calling you "baby" already. Tell her you're not interested, and be firm with it. A good friend wouldn't peer pressure you into it- a good friend would understand.
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