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anonymous
writes:hi i cheated on my partner 6 years ago ,then she cheated on me around 6 mths later which i found out about 2 weeks ago , since i cheated i have been honest and true to her and i thought her to me she told me it happened once but she as keep in touch untill now by way of text around 5 yrs (lots of texts and a few pic messages )but says they were not sexual pics or texts she also has been texting another man for about 18 mths who she says she has never met (a mutal x friend )we are trying to work through it but after so long can it work or will she do it again do i give it another go or not
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): that was a unexpecting answer thank you good advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): I think at first it was revenge but not anymore. Now you have to ask yourself why is she texting these other men? There is something she is missing from you that she is getting from these other men. You need to find out what that is, and if you can forgive her then start working at it. I know this sounds pretty typical but all we women need is to feel listened to and understood. The reast falls into place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2012): If you cheat on someone they tend to do one of two things. Either work harder on the relationship or cheat back. Truly what did you expect? Good for her. Honestly she had the right to do as she did or had the choice to end it with you. What makes you think your actions where acceptable. You did it first........ Remember that.......
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (7 February 2012):
 Try to consolidate your compatibility...her actions might have resulted from an inner vengeance,since you cheated first..have a open discussion with her and see what she has to say...your relationship must be passing through a phase of lack of communication and trust which in turn is triggering a sense of suspicion in both of you...you must sit down with her and clear the air of mistrust..TAKE THE INITIATIVE AND IT WILL WORK...all the best
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