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writes:My partner and I are thinking of doing a threesome i dont mind at all connsidering i have never done one at all, the only worry i have is losing him through it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Threesomes can be a great way to spice up a fading relationship.
But they can have consequences. Mostly if you use a friend, because it can destroy not one, but two relationships.
If you do go through with it, this is why I suggest hiring a call-girl for the experience. It's a little more pricey, to this girl the sex is just a job and she won't (in the greater majority of cases) develop any romantic feeling for either you or your partner.
But if you any doubts about a threesome, give it a miss until you don't.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 This question comes up a lot. Three-somes and swinging in general can really tear up a relationship. Only if a couple really is willing and able NOT just to share their partner but also themselves with another and accept that this new person might be "better" then them can you even begin to contemplate the idea.
It is a common fantasy to have a three-some but somethings just need to remain fantasies.
If you need to ask on a forum wether it is alright, then you are not ready for it and may never be.
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (29 March 2008):
 I dont think you should do it. Not because I think your partner will run off into the sunset with the other woman, but just because a threesome is the kind of thing where there has to be 110% trust and security or your jealousy will torture you afterwards. If you're worried about losing him to her now, it will be a million times worse afterwards. You'll wonder if she was better than you, if he wanted her more than you, if he still thinks about her like that etc etc.
I would keep it as a fantasy.
take care,
brooke
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): If in doubt then dont do it. If you are even the slightest bit worried about losing him then certainly dont do it. It cannot be undone once you have done it. Why do you want to do it in the first place? What is the attraction? Whose idea was it first? The thing about fantasies is, they often should stay just in the fantasy world in our head and not brought into reality. You can say NO.
take care
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