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writes:After being suspicious for a while after a few lies, and weird goings on, my boyfriend admitted to me last night that he had almost slept with someone else he used to go out with following a fight between us. I was devestated. I don't really want to end the relationship, Ive worked hard, we both have at keeping us together and it feels like id be throwing away a lot. But i dont want to be seen as a pushover either. Reply to this Question
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 He almost slept with that person and that was clearly not a good thing. If you feel that he is truly sorry for his action, then he will hardly see you as a pushover for forgiving him.
On the other hand, if you find yourself thinking all the time that he might be cheating on you, or wondering if he's with other people than his friends when he goes out, then maybe you should consider getting out of the relationship.
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