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female
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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my long term bf back in October. We had been together for almost a year and then right out of the blue he broke up with me over the phone. I eas heartbroken and really struggled to accept it was over - one day he was asking me what ring size I was (he was planning to buy me a ring for our 1 year anniversary) and the next he was phoning me to tell me he didn't feel the same way. I feel as if I have moved on and have developed infatuations briefly with other men. But am finding it hard. I miss the cuddles and love that goes with being in a relationship and I miss spending my weekends with someone special, so when I do meet a new guy I rush in to things far too fast and it drives the man away and then I get really upset because I think there is something wrong with me. It's really getting me down. I don't know what to do. It's as if I've gotten over my ex but don't know how to act around men anymore. I constantly feel lonely and isolated and am really hating being on my own. I've been crying nearly ever other day for the past month. I've also started to really hate myself because I feel so unloved.
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