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writes: hi so i got a boyfriend, but i don't love him, i think i just want to use him to loose my virginity.i know it's bad,i know that i should break up with her,but i want some experience in sex before i go into a real relationship. i thing he doesn't love me either. My real problem is, that i think i'm in love with my gym teacher, im 18 and he's 8yrs older than me, i think he likes me to some way. im feeling weird when im around him, and today we talked on msn and we got along pretty well. so i dont really know what am i want, or what should i do. Pleas give me some advices!!! thx Susie
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reader, Assah  +, writes (4 January 2011):
Dnt loose your virginity to someone you dnt love
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): dude thats wrong.
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reader, angelfire02  +, writes (7 February 2007):
That is a very immature way of wanting to lose your virginity. That is a girls most precious possession, and shouldnt be given up to just any guy! It should be with someone youve been with for a long period of time...someone you truly love, and trust with all your heart. No girl should have to feel embarrassed about still being a virgin. You will get more respect from a guy if you dont give it up so easily anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): Dearried, this is a place to help people. Not to make rude remarks like you did. It was a typo, not a gender identity problem.
Anyway, don't date your teacher. Not only is it against the rules but you have to question why this 26 year old wants to date a high school kid. Eight years is not a bad age difference but you should wait until after high school to date this guy if you just have to. It is not okay to date your teacher. If you date your teacher now the consequences you would both have to face both socially and legally isn't going to be pretty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): hi if u like your gym teacher and he is single,why dont u tell there is only 8 yrs between you, thats nothing. u sound like your doing what i did, u got a boyfriend but u really want your gym teacher, why dont u wait till u leave tell your teacher and see how things go?
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reader, i-love-you +, writes (6 April 2006):
 hey Susie!hows it going, now i dont want to be mean but are you sure that you gym teacher really likes you or hes just being nice(belive me once i thought my freind liked me and he didnt and now we dont even talk cause its just to weird and i miss him as a friend) but it dosnt mean that he might not like you i just say u should be carfull and with your boy friend maby just hang out with him more and you will love him and care for him and then your the one you might want to have sex with. well if u ever want to talk to send me a message k :)
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reader, ModishMe24 +, writes (2 April 2006):
 Hey Susie,
My advice to you is dont lose your virginity just to lose it. Its something that you will remember for the rest of your life, and i know its cliche to say but you should try to find someone that means somethign to you at least. You dont want thinking back on it and regretting it.
Now about your teacher, there is a possibility that he can like you. Speaking from personal experience,Ive had this sort of tihng happen to me a few times now. In fact, I started dating one of my high school teachers when i was still in his class. It was a little bizarre at first but now we are very happy together now, despite the 17 yr difference.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (21 February 2006):
 First your teacher should not be chatting to you on MSN, this is a breach of his code of conduct and he has crossed a boundary and could end up being disaplined for this.
He may be interested in you but he should not be, he is a teacher and does know that he is not allowed to have any sort of relationship with you other than a teacher and pupil one, he could get sacked.
Forget him!
Why do you feel you need to have sex, loosing your virginity is something you only do the once and it should at the least be with someone who cares for you, you have a life time of sex ahead of you and you just dont need to do it so soon, take your time and find a nice partner, dont do it just to get it out of the way.
Finish with the bloke you have no feelings for as you know this is the right thing to do, chill out and take your time over gaining sexual experience and forget your teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2006): If you think there's nothing wrong with that then why dont you tell your boyfriend thats all you want him for? If your quite happy to be used by him or to be seen as a "skank" ask him. Never know he might be just using you for the same thing it could work out well for both of you...dont imagine this gym teacher would approve of that kind of behaviour though!! Unless thats all you want him for! Its unfair to keep this bf of yours under false pretences - come clean!!
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reader, dearreid +, writes (21 February 2006):
Well, Susie, it appears as if you're confused about more than just your gym teacher. It appears that your real confusion is with gender identity. You "got a boyfriend" but you know that you should "break up with her." I think you need to sort out your gender and sexuality issues a little bit, before you go hopping into bed with the first person who's willing. And definitely before you go after someone much older than you. Come clean, Susie, are you really a male? And, are you sure this gym teacher is gay?If you want more help, feel free to visit me at a www.dearreid.com
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