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writes: hi :) i know this is not a big situation to you but it really is for me .. this boy who is my friend well i dont really talk to him as much has asked me out and he really likes me but i dont like him in a loving way .. i really wanna break up with him but it will ruin our friendship i also really do like this boy who really like me 2 but he lives so far away from me and i dont no if i should meet him or not i think i love him .. what shall i do ?? please help me :) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (17 July 2006):
Okay firstly you need to sort out your current relationship, if you've decided that this relationship isn't for you it's best to tell him now it'll hurt more in the long run. When you enter in to a relationship with a friend you risk your friendship and that'you decided to take. But it's unfair to stay in a relationship if the only reason is because you don't want to ruin your friendship it's unfair on your boyfriend as it give him false hope and security.
And you second problem, long distance relationship can be hard as i know from personal experience but they also can be worth well ti all depends if you willing to put the work in.
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