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writes: I prevoiusly posted a question of help about my bf being moody about his ex! This has gotten worse. I tried to talk to him about the problem and it made him worse with me. He has completely backed off from me, doesnt call when he says he's going to, doesn't reply to text messages or anything now. Everything he hated his ex doing to him he is doing to me. Should i just forget about him and leave the relationship well alone?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Short answer? Yes.
I think you know this in your heart already, so if you're just looking for confirmation of your decision, you have it from me.
From this outside standpoint, he appears not to be over his ex in a MASSIVE way. He has basically frozen you out so he can concentrate on her.
He's been incredibly selfish and unkind to treat you this way, so I suggest that you give him the space he needs to run this out to its resolution. And I don't think that you have to "wait" for him to make his mind up, if you take my meaning.
Go out, see people, have fun, all in the knowledge that your soon-to-be-ex is tied up in knots over a woman who treated him awfully. Go figure...
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