A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a problem with my boyfriend's lies. At the beginning of our relationship I would tell openly about anything which would bother me. But he would get angry or upset at mentioning some topics and now I don't mention them, but still issues come and I feel we can't speak openly about them. These issues include his lies. They are not big lies, as far as I know, but I hate when somebody lies to me. I prefer ugly truth than white lie. Should I just accept that our relationship is not on that honesty level that I would like it to be, or insist on clearing up the things? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): I know what you mean. My boyfriend has told a few lies and I think they are obvious lies but when I ask him about them he starts shouting at me and makes me feel like I am the one in the wrong!
A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 Talk to him about it, tell him that if he cannot be honest with you no matter how small the lie is then the relationship is over. Tell him you value honesty and that you are serious about it. One more lie and it is over.
...............................
|
