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I don't like feeling like I'm second-best

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Question - (20 October 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I was a widow and have now been married three years.

My husband was married 3 times before. Two of them are pretty much out of the picture but, the second one they were sweethearts and were married close to 12 years. She became ill and he started sending her cards almost every day, mailed her money (behind my back) and now still sends emails mostly songs about how he loves her and God loves her. I am sure he has emailed the other wife also. It seems he has to know what they are all doing. There were no kids with the second wife or third. The first wife they had two chidren all grown and married. I do know he had an affair when married to the first one. Just reading this over, I maybe should have just thrown him aside. I do love him but, how do I let him know I don't like the idea of feeling 2nd choice.

Thanks

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