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writes:i dont know why i am bleeding.okay so i stopped havin sex wit my boyfriend because our annaversery was coming up and i wanted to make him wait for about 6 weeks.but i jus told him i didnt want to have sex anymore. right after i told him i had my period so that made it easier for me not to have sex with him. than about two weeks later he was drunk and wanted to have sex. i kept tellin him no and he got really angry. i really didnt want to but he got me in the room with him and wasnt letting me go so i jus let him do wat he wanted. i hurt a little but i am little and we hadnt done it in two weeks. than two days later i was bleeding and i still am. its bin six days since i've bin bleeding and its not my period because i jus got off it a week and a half ago. i dont know wats happening and i dont know wat to do. any advice??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): Dear Poster
I have empathy with you; your boyfriend abused you; he should respect your wishes;
Nobody has the right to force you to have sex if you don't feel like it or don't want it. Never allow anybody to do this to you. It is abusive and it means the person has no RESPECT for you, your feelings and your body. He used you to satisfy his own needs. Yes, I know it might sound harsh, but that is the REALITY.
As for the bleeding, it is not a good sign; you migt have got injured internally;
HOWEVER
PLEASE consult your doctor a.s.a.p.; there could be various reasons why you are bleeding and when it comes to health it is not worth taking any RISKS. I don't want to speculate on as to what the various reason could be;
I URGE you: Don't delay, the longer you wait the worse the problem might get. CONSULT your doctor.
I am sure your doctor will be able to prescribe the correct treatment and medication to solve the "bleeding" problem which needs URGENT ATTENTION;
BUT
you need to do some stock taking regarding your relationship with this guy. If he does not respect you and if he is so abusive towards you, I suggest you reconsider your relationship and the future of this relationship.
You deserve better; you should be with somebody that treats you with love and respect; somebody that will value you and treat as a person and not just abuse you for sex.
Please contact your doctor and do give careful consideration to the future of this relationship; you don't need to be treated like this by anybody; least of all the person who is supposed to love you and care for you.
You owe it to yourself to do what is best for YOU.
My thoughts are with you; keep us posted.
Best wishes and always keep SMILING.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008): If your on birth controll pills it makes you bleed alot. And causes you to be iregular. But I would give it a week and see if your still bleeding. Then if it has not stop and your not on birth controll, I would call your gyn. Mabe you have a slight tear. You can never be sure of anything.
But one time I was on birth controll and I blead for 2 weeks untill I was finished. I then through those away.
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (4 October 2008):
 Hi, the advice I can give is to go to see your GP and ask them if there is anything that can cause this type of bleeding. I would also say that no one should ever have to do anything they dont want to. Please dont allow your boyfriend to treat you like that again.
One thing I would like to say is is there any chance you could of been pregnant?
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