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female
age
30-35,
*cotgirl
writes:can't get over my ex who now lives in another country and is never coming back even though he says he loves me we met in our last year of school and immediately clicked. He made me so happy and we never argued. he was austrian and we both knew that one day he would return home but we were happy and were just enjoying the moment. when it came to it we decided to try and stay together and with nothing to keep me home i went au pairing away to try and avoid all the things that reminded me of himI missed him terribly and we argued alot on the phone because of our fustration. in the end i left lanzarote where i was au pairing after only 2 months and moved to austria to be with him putting my life on hold. it just wasn't the same. we argued so much and i was very lonely in a coutry where i didn't know any one and didn't even know the language. he could not appreciate the sacrifices i was making to be with him and the commitment i showed. it wasn't his fault but he just didn't know how to support me. finally i decided i had to come home and get my life back on track. i was in a rut8 months on im doing well for my self but i just can't let him go and now im worried i may of lost the best thing that will ever happen to me. hes never coming back here and i can't face moving away again and to make it worse he has just come back for a month on holiday and we're acting like a couple. im so sad and happy at the same time. i love him so much why can't he just return back home to me where we first met and where every thing was fine. he seems to cope so much better then me. i want to cry every time i hear a song that reminds me of how much i love him.How do I forget him or at least stop hoping and waiting for a future which will never happen in reality where he comes home and every thing goes bak to how it was.. this kind of love is so painful
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): You carry on living your life!!! You focus on you. Eventually the heartache will go, but that comes with time, and moving forward. You don't want to forget him, you just want the heartache to ease, so keep focusing on yourself, your goals, on you!
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