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writes: Going to be going to an amusement park with a girl I'm 90% interested in.It's going to be me, her, one of her best friends (a mutual friend), and a fourth person (whom the girl in question told me to pick from my friends).We're all from different neighboring states so we're just going to spend the weekend at her house.If I don’t bring a friend, our mutual friend is bringing a friend from home.The friend that I was gonna bring (the one that would fit in the best) also happens to be my best wing-man friend. However, I’m really the only one who would know him, so I feel like I’d spend more time with him than with the girl I’m interested in.Likewise, if our mutual friend brings a friend, I’d assume they’d pair off for rides and such, leaving more time for me to capture this girl’s attention. Plus I don’t really feel like I need a ‘wingman.’ I more or less just want to confirm my thinking that I should let her friend bring a friend instead of me hand picking my wingman lol, even though the girl told me to bring one of my friends. Or does anyone think it would be more beneficial if I didn’t gamble with it?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 May 2013):
if you want to make time with this new girl it's better for her friend to bring someone that will keep her entertained as well.
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