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writes: I have been really good friends with this girl for near 6 months now and we became close and helped each other out. I then wrote her a love letter saying i wanted more because i cared for her so much, for just over 2 weeks after that she basically ignored me apart from a txt saying that she reli respected me but she couldnt offer anything more. She came up to me the other day and out of nowhere gave me a hug n acted like we sort of were before the letter situation which is what i realised and wanted as we couldnt be anything more. My other friends thought it was really bad that she didnt respond to me for ages and i thought it aswell, but now im confused with our situation and if she does respect me or is now just going to use me like she has with her previous boyfriends. I know that the situation is sort of self explanitory but im really confused with it all at the moment and i would like some advice, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (2 March 2006):
 This girl just wants to be friends with you. If she has a history of asking for "favors" then it is possible that she is using you. If she ever asks to borrow money or for other charitable things, then you might think twice about being friends with her. She probably did not respond for two weeks because she felt uncomfortable with your desire to be more than friends and wasn't sure how to let you down easy. She may have hugged you when she saw you because she feels bad for not being interested. Maybe she really does want a friendship with you and that will be made clear by her future actions. Don't worry - there are other fish in the sea, right? Good luck to you!
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reader, shania +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Basically this girl just sees you as a good friend and nothing more.When you wrote her a letter saying how much you cared for her,she started to back off and txt you saying ahe couldnt give you something more....the fact that she gave you a hug was probably out of friendship...i give hugs to my close friends but it doesnt mean that i want anything more...because i dont.This girl values your company but nothing more...maybe you should start looking elsewhere....remember,there is plenty of girls out there who would love to be your girlfriend...but not this one.
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