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writes:HeyIm 18 I have been going on a couple of dates with a guy that I met at work, were both in University as well. We have been out about 10 times some of these involve with his freinds and mine going for drinks and going out after.Im just so confused when im not with him or speaking to him i miss him but when i am i can't be bothered with it all, im just so confused i dont even know what we are. Are we seeing each other or dating i dont know wether i should ask.Also he is 21 and im 18 and i have never had sex as i have been waiting for the right person should i tell him this? I dont want to lead him on thinking were going to have sex when i would like to wait at least 2 months,I just dont know what to do
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (16 April 2013):
 I held onto my virginity until I found a special guy and it was a fantastic thing to do! I have been in relationships lasting up to 3years and had 7 boyfriends before the one I gave myself to. The reason I could do that and was so confident was I was up front. If a guy asked me, I'd say "yep, I'm a virgin and I'm waiting for someone I care about, maybe even marriage!" I wore it proudly that guys should be interested in me because I could give them more than sex, and every guy I dated still is friends with me and still interested in me. Don't give in until you're absolutely ready, and be proud that you can say no!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2013): Look comming from a guy let me tell you this, if he asks you to have sex....and you say your not ready and watch his reactions to your answer, if he acts like hes depressed looking in the face hes tryin to make you feel bad for sayin' no....and if he seems to back off by cutting yalls dates down or not wanting to talk to you much or seems to say hes always busy "cant talk" then he only wanted sex in the first place..but dont do it cause he wants you to, do it cause you want to...i prefer to wait till marriage (thats what im doing) im 19 and believe me ive got alot of jokes from people for me being a virgin but you have to stick with what you believe in.....hope this helps :)
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