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writes: My best friend just found out that her husband is cheating on her. Our relationship has become very strained. She gets very defensive when I give her advice or ask her how she knows certain information that she has found out about her husband. This is driving her crazy. I just had to hang up on her beacause she she started getting ugly with me.I told her I couldn't talk to her right now. Now I feel bad cause hung up, but she doesn't have to get defensive and ugly with me. What do I do??? Please help!!!tsd
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reader, rphillips +, writes (12 May 2005):
It sounds like your friend just wants to vent. So let her. Don't offer any advice. Just listen to her. Then if she asks for your advice, be honest, just say, I don't think that I can help you with this problem, but I know of a good therapist who might be able to.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2005): Ok. Maybe her husband isn't instered in her anymore and to find out for sure if he is cheating on her hire a private investigater or something like that to spy on him at work and off work. It just might help her feel better and maybe she should start giving times in which he has to be home before blah blah blah.....
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