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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused..I had/have this boyfriend..we'd be going out about a month and 2 weeks now and yeah, he's amazing and stuff..But we stopped talking like we used to..it wasn't the same and then he ignored me for about 2 days and then one of my friends, who I hadn't spoken to about it, text me saying what's happened with you two? And I text her back saying 'I dunno, what has happened' and then she said..'Your not together?' I wasn't aware that we weren't together, he hadn't told me, he'd said he wasn't sure if we were the same and stuff but he hadn't said we were finished!Also my best friend had told me we might as well not go out and she also said she didn't think we were anymore,So then I text him saying 'can you stop ignoring me and tell me what's going on between us? And he replied with just ok. I then asked what had happened and why are people saying we weren't going out and he didn't reply,I seen him at school the next morning and he went to give me a highfive so I went to do it back and he held my hand and pulled me towards him and hugged him now when I see him he hugs me all the time? And talks a lot to me.But my best friend still says we're not going out. Someone said to me its because she is jealous of our relationship because she is having problems herself with her current boyfriend and ex boyfriend. I don't know what to say to this boy to see what's happening?And do you think by the sounds of it we are still going out or we are just friends?Thanks for reading :)
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reader, Sakura86  +, writes (15 September 2011):
I am not sure about your gf, but maybe your boy also has some problem, or both of them have problems. If you think that he did not reply your message is normal then you are wrong. Just think if he ask you the same question, and if you still love him and it is just a misunderstanding, won't you feel like you want to make it clear for your asap instead of ignoring the question by going back to normal? It is just sound weird for me. Just sit down and talk it out, don't guess. Ask him straight face-to-face that what is your relationship now.
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