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writes:Hi I'm sure I just sound like a typical teenage girl but I don't know if this guy likes me!We talked on snapchat everyday for like 3 hours and the conversation was so easy and he told me he liked me, in my mind it was going well. Then i messaged him and he just said hi back (this was the first time he had every replied without an x or something) I thought it was a bit strange but moved on, as it's not that big of a deal but after like 4 days of me having to start the conversations(normally we both did) I started to thing maybe he doesn't like me anymore I looked on his best friends and he has this other girl as his second best friend. I looked her up on facebook (ino a bit stalkerish) and she is 10x prettier than me. I think he likes her as he has now just stopped replying when I message him and he accidentally sent me a snapchat when we weren't talking that had like 5 x's on it. I don't know if this guy still likes me please help!!!
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reader, Princess_008  +, writes (26 November 2014):
I think that guy considered you as a friend only. It sounds like he was chatting with you just a friend only. There might be two reason why you think he does not like anymore.- Maybe once the other girl came in his life, he has started giving her more attention. Probably he thinks she's the "one". So there's the reason why he is devoting his times towards the other girl. As such he's unable to give you much time. That's totally understandable if he considered you as a friend only.- Secondly, maybe he realised that you think he liked you in the other way when he just liked you like a friend. So he is distancing himself from you!I would advise you to avoid him a few days and see his reaction. If he misses you he'll come back. If he does so or confronts like why you are avoiding him etc..then you can just let the matter out and tell me how you felt when you was being avoided.If he does not come back, then let go and move on.! don't chase him like keep texting him first and so so...that will only makes you clingy and undesirable
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (26 November 2014):
Nobody can answer that with this information.
But, let's say he did like you. What would that mean? Would you ask him out? Would you just talk to him on snapshot? If your question is only relevant because you are curious then I'd say to find someone else to talk to.
But if you wanted more from him than a virtual friendship then you can test the waters by assuming he likes you and doing all the things you would have done if he liked you.
If you just give up then you'll never know, but if you're proactive then you can see how he feels a lot better than by guessing.
I hope that makes sense.
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