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I don't know if I'm straight or bi?

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Question - (13 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

The thing is, I am straight, but I often catch myself looking at girls and noticing how pretty they are. I never fantasize over kissing them, or having sex, or anything like that. As i read, some one says we are naturally attracted to one sex or both. I am naturally attracted to men, and my friend is to men and women.

so here it is, just this night, by friend told me she was bi, Im like up top man thats awesome. Then I began to think, does she like me? Weird right. We've been friends for a while now. My other friend is bi too, and she is pretty cool. Does she like me, I ask myself. Does this mean I'm bi if im asking myself these questions?

I really do not want to be bi, but dont get me wrong, most bi people i know are totally awesome. I want to just be attracted to men.

Do you think I'm bi or straight. If you think I'm bi, please help me convince myself not to be...

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (13 December 2008):

baddogbj agony auntOur sexual orientations are on a spectrum there is no hard and fast line at which you are bi rather than straight. It does sound however as if you are much more straight than bi. It is perfectly normal for straight girls to look at other girls and think that they look nice - that is because they DO look nice - you're just generally speaking the nicer looking sex!

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