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writes: We broke up a month ago, no bad reason it sorta like bad timing with him.. so after a while we still hang out call eachother. txt, talk online...but he still says he is unsure if he wants a relationship right now.. and then after my bday party he sends me a txt saying : I see you as a special girl who I love to have around me and I want anything she (me) wants as long as its you, and I dont know whats up with me no but I dont want to lose you. well so this was 3 weeks ago, I even asked him a week later if he felt the same he said he did. so this is the message I get from his acting: He doesnt want to lose me, cares for me, doesnt love me yet ( he told me this) and doesnt want a relationship yet.. he said that its strange even for him but that he doesnt have the I want this or that right now, and when I see him he is the one leaning in to kiss me, he even invuted me to another city for 3 days cos hes going for work with a few other friends.. I really wanna be with him but I dont know how much time I shold give him? what do I tell him? should I say jsut flat out what I feel? WHAT DO I DO?? what do you think from this situation???
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reader, Clarey  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Don't do or say anything. You can't make someone want to be with you it has to come from them. He may be saying that while he finds you attractive he wants to be single and play the field. If you go on that trip you may expose yourself a bit much to his charm..don't you think? If you start dating other people you will surely get his interest perked up again. But the problem with that is he may come on strong only to retreat again when he wins you around. I would tease him a bit for fun and play the field. That would provide a challenge for him! Only take him up if he is good enough and committed to being only with you otherwise stay friends and maybe he will mature.
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