A
female
age
26-29,
*wesomechic
writes:There this guy that iv know sense i was little we meet in when i was a cheerleader and he was a football player.anyways we have been going to the same school forever but know this year i really like him we dont talk that much or text each other we have 1st period together and we sit by each other he pokes me draws on my arm takes everything from me and hides it etc. i really dont know if hes flirting with me and i dont know how to flirt with him. but i really like him and i wont to go out with him oh and he stares at me alot.i really dont know what to do please help please.
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reader, Abella +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Yes yes yes , he is delighting in flirting with you. And you, like any girl getting this serious attention, are flattered by his interest.
Couple of points to keep in mind. He is charming, cute, totally delightful and possibly makes the butterflies in your tummy do somersaults. But wait, there is more! His touch on your arm will have you melting. And now the dampener. Guys in this age group just love playing with fire to see how it feels. They love flexing their fire-power to see what sparks they can ignite.
But 13-16 is a time when boys can offer you very little but the time they spend with you to practise, practise, practise for later when they are more serious about a long term relationship.
It is fine if you do not mind him learning his flirtation skills and practise how to entice a girl into a relationship.
And if you enjoy being flirtatious then it will probably seem great.
But do please check out articles by Anonymousmale1 first. Find Anonymousmale1 by writing that name in the 'friends' category. He has so many good articles to help girls make the right moves over guys.
Your first love is such a wonderful thing.
But before that must come your school work and your school grades. And keeping your bedroom tidy and being nice to your Mom.
Make sure you go to school every day with your hair nicely washed, your skin smelling lovely. But do have some standards you decide in advance and stick to those standards so that you can try to avoid the hurt of a first love if it falters, as most do.
In the mean time this love-sick boy would probably love a smile or two ;)
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