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writes:my junior i got preg.i moved away from home had my baby boy. his father had "feelings" he said for me but was in another realationship with everyone. i wasnt going to deal with that and after everything he put me thru i lost all those feelings..well most.. like i get mad when he tries to replace my son with things.. or when his current girlfriend is prego now to says she is going to be a better mom.. but other than that i just dont care..but in highschool he had this best friend.. name joe and before i got with my sons father i had a tiny crush on him but he liked my friend so i just over look him even tho i like his nerdness!a few years ago we started talking on facebook which was great! he talked so much that we traded numbers! and then it grew to dating as much as a long distance relationship can he was a marine so he live in another state only for like 6 months and we broke up the distance was hard.. but i still love this boy! i mean it i do we have been broken up for over a year. and i have love this boy for 2 years and only dated him 6 monthsmakes me sound crazy right?but we have been talking for every and we went to school together so it gives me all right to like him that long and that fact that we use to hang out all the time.. well joe acts like a boyfriend still i mean he text me all the time on what he is doing and makes sure im ok.. we even still have long distance movie dates over the phone which is amazing that he would even do that ! lol he still tells me he loves me and wishes we can be together.. at one point he asked to be together and for some stupid reason i wanted him to think about it loli just want to be with him and the only way i can do that with hiim being in the marines. is move off base stalkish like and move when he moves .. or get married.. i want to be a relationship with this man again that would lead up to marriage.. but i dont know how to bring it up again.. i dont want to sound to pushy i just miss him so muchI LOVE HIM!i sound crazy and iknow that its just hard to be away from a guy you love for soo long.. its been 4 years since i been out of high school.. its been 3 years after high school we have talked its been 2 years that i have loved him and only had dated 6 months.i think the only differnce between being together and now is the point of reassureance that he is mine and i am his.that this is going to led somewhere.. and i want that ! i would marry him today if i could.. but i dont want to get married right this sec.. i mean i want to do right! lol i know im crazy.. i do.. but he makes me feel that warm fuzzy feeling like on a cold winter night you get you just got done playing out side and you go in and sit next to the fire with a blanket and you drink your hot coco :D or when you go down a really big hill and you stomach goes up and doesnt want to come back down... he makes me feel great.. i love his flaws and all and i know he loves me! when i gaze in his eyes i know im safe the way he holds me and tells me he loves me makes everything ok! the way he makes sure that i dont need anything that i will be ok the way he makes sure im safe all the time even if i drive around the corner to get us something to eat he will watch from the hotel we are staying at and make sure that no on the way there he cares! i just want to get to the point on the moving of this relationship!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 The only thing that you can do here is to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If am honest it sounds like he feels the same way as you so am sure he will be very happy to hear that you still love him and want to be with him. So ring him and tell him. If you want to move and he wants that to well then why not. Go for it. You only live once. Good luck.
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