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writes:Alright. About a year ago, I met this REALLY nice, cute and tall (yah... It's hard for me to find all 3 in 1 package, considering im 6 feet tall) boy. He liked me... ALOT. It was weird for me, because I'm a distant person, and need time to get to know someone. We went out for a little, and then I broke it off, because I didnt feel anything there. This year, I moved to his school (my old one was being closed down), and he was just the sweetest, and showed me how to get everyewhere. Once again, he liked me, we dated, and i still didnt feel anything, so I broke it off. Turns out he was always so nice to me because he never really "stopped" liking me. After being in the same school, and spending most of my time with him, I began to fall for him. I knew him very well, and saw a really great BF. But it was too late. he spends all his afternoons at another school, and began to ingnore me, and in a way, treat me differently. I knew something was up, and I found out he likes another girl now. I'm as jealous as hell. He was the only one there for me the whole time at my new school, and now he barely even wants to speak to me. He's even been bargaining with his parents to move to te school the other girl goes too. It's driving me insane. I have pretty low self esteem, and this sure as hell isnt helpiing me. Is there anyway I can just get over him? His locker is by mine, so I see him everyday. I just want to move on, but he was the only person that has EVER treated me that well, or liked me for who I am.and suggestions? (sorry for any spelling errors. I have horrible grammer)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): You don't deserve him...move on with your life. It's like you said, you are jealous as hell because, now he is no longer interested in you and he has his eyes set on another woman. Do you think this guy has time to play emotional games with you? You have mental and emotional problems and a relationship should be the last thing on your mind...instead you should seek therapy for your issue. LEAVE THIS GUY THE HELL ALONE. Don't try to get him to come back to you, because, you only want him back for the wrong reasons, you don't love him, you don't care about him, you are simply driven by jealousy.
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reader, sealmire  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 well to me its just plain and simple. he felt that you both werent getting anywhere and he probably lost hope. and that really really sucks. im not too good at this but he probably gave it his best shot and you didnt do anything to let him know he actually got somewhere with it. to him it came across as probably "she didnt like me as much as i liked her" and when that bomb drops, its instant hell in his mind. he needed to find someone else to recover from the pain. it sucks, probably felt like a total ass or somethin. but coming from me, if you still want to be with him, do the natural thing. TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. once he's closed the memories on you. your out of his mind, he's moved on. THEN you want to forget and move on yourself. but hey, look at it this way. when a guy likes you, he'll only take sooooo much before he pretty much says. "screw her". and you'll never know and what you dont know, wont hurt you. but hey do your best to get him back. hope i helped a lil bit
good luck, sealmire
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reader, Helhel  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 I dnt really know the extent of the situation tbh, but i had the same situation with my ex bf.
We went out many a time, and i always dumped him time and time again. When he go a new gf i wanted him back, and i couldnt of course. I got over him quickly. I suggest you find someone new.
Im only telling you what i did and you dnt need to take my advice but it helped me a lot
Good luck
XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): well, i think you need to talk to him. tell him that you're very grateful for what he's done for you and that you're sorry for what you've done and that you'd really like to try again. tell him that you didn't really feel anything for him the first two times but you do now and you'd like to give it another shot. you never know..maybe he's liking this other girl to make you jealous? go on, there's no harm in trying. what have you got to lose? good luck! :) x
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