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writes: Okay, so I'll try and keep this brief...I kissed a guy I liked at a party several weeks ago. We usually kiss when we're alone together now, and since the start I explained I wasn't ready for a full on relationship. I'm a virgin, and he's into sex, and I'm just not that focused on that right now.But we were in town last weekend, and he insisted on walking me to the bus stop, and we kissed again. Then he had to go and as he ran he got hit by a car...I worried all night about him, and prayed he'd be okay. He is alright, broken wrist, and stitches in his head, but nothing too serious. Now he's saying he wants to talk to me, and be with me, and I don't know what to do.I like him, but he does drugs, and although he's really nice, I'm not sure we would be good together.He even is convinced that he was worrying about me whilst he was in hospital, and keeps apologising.Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Glad to hear he's okay.I would at least hear him out, hear what he has to say. And if he says he wants to "take it to the next level" or something to that effect and you still don't think it would work out, I would be completely 100% up-front with him; just be totally honest with him. If he truly loves you, he'll understand.
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