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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for about six months now, we get on amazingly and are very happy together. however, his ex girlfriend is clearly still not over him, they broke up over a year ago but i can see she still loves him.when she first discovered he was seeing me it was on a night out and we were hugging and kissing, she ran to the toilets and cried all night (we have mutual friends who told me this.)i talked things through with her and said i hope shes ok with the situation and that shes able to accept us as a couple (i dont owe her anything-we were never friends, but i know how hard it can be seeing an ex with someone new)anyway, i thought everything was fine, but shes recently been changing her facebook status, making snide remarks about our relationship. its so childish and pathetic, but she keeps commenting on photos of me and my boyfriend saying he's gay (disguising it in a jokey way, but it still gets to me)and just recently she's started sleeping with his best friend (i'm pretty sure this is just to try and get back at my boyfriend, but he doesnt care because he's moved on :s)It's hard because I'm away at uni and he works full time back at home so when he goes out with his mates, she's always around with this new guy, but seems to cling to my boyfriend. He's admitted to me that he wishes she'd make her own friends and finds it awkward when she around.I don't know how to ignore her or get her out of our lives... help?
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reader, nikki485  +, writes (29 January 2009):
NExt time she says he's gay or something just look her square in the eye and say "grow up, I'm dating him so get over it" then push past her. (thats if shes mean) If shes nice, say something like: " Um... (her name), I like this "gay" guy so please stop sening me messages about him. Thanx! I appricate this a lot. Bii!
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