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writes:Hiya. My boyfriend keeps dropping really obvious hints that he wants a blow job. It's not that i don't want to give him one because he have had sex, but i've never given one before and i dont want to seem stupid. So any tips? Also my friend has sex while she's on her period, would she have to take her tampon out? Thanks. xx
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reader, JackTheMan  +, writes (22 March 2011):
Ok, a good bj is hard to find – offer that to him, and he’ll be yours. Here are some basics, five tips.
1 – Choose the right position. Keep in mind that men are visual, we want to see you, don’t even think about turning off the lights. Create a good atmosphere, you want to capture his senses.
2 – Smile. Yep, a smile can be very powerful. I’m not saying you should be grinning all the time, just give him a smile hear and there, it needs to be sexy, seductive, naughty – seduce him, show him that you enjoy it, and really, be genuine.
3 – Look your best. Yep, work on your looks. And pull your hair back, it doesn’t have to drop in all the time, we want to see your eyes and your nice, loving face.
4 – Moan. Yep, as I’ve said, capture his senses, smell nice, talk nice, be happy about it, and you’re already better than 50% of all the other women out there. He’ll, better than 80%.
5 – Look at him for feedback. Eye contact is first and foremost important so you can see his facial expressions and see how he reacts to your techniques, and then adjust. It’s all about the feelings, throw in some real passion and connect with him on a deeper level.
You’ll see over time and practice, you will learn how to give the best BJ ever. There’s nothing more seductive than an amazing bj. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blowjob then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons
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reader, kooky +, writes (31 March 2009):
Most girls dont give good blow jobs unfortunately. You see because you are a girl you dont know what a guy likes. This is the advantage that being gay has. If youre a guy then you know what guys like. Dont listen to people who say treat it gently or lick it like an ice cream. This doesnt do much at all. I mean of course you must be careful not to hurt with teeth etc but you need to use a lot of suction in your mouth whilst gripping it with your hand so that you are masturbating and sucking simultaneously. Suck hard and get faster and faster. Also let him slap your face with it and slap your tongue LOL. My Boyfriend loves the way I do it and i love the way he does. Make sure he returns the favour though and if he doesnt then get rid of him. Oh and the tampon thing, Im sure you are kidding about that so Im not even going to answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): Definetely take the tampon out! And as far as blow job goes, main thing..DON'T BITE! Ok..I'll quit teasing..think of him like an ice cream cone, or a sucker..you know..lick and suck (not too hard)..and believe me, as long as you are gentle and don't hurt him, your guy will be happy to let you know what he likes, doesn't like ok?
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reader, herc  +, writes (7 October 2008):
There is no end of tutorials and tips on how to give a good blowjob. Try google. However, a blowjob isn't that complicated. Lick and suck, concentrate on the head(most nerve endings), and don't forget to use your hands on the shaft and sack and rest of his body. You can rest your jaw by switching from mouth to hand and back. And that's about it. You'll get better with practice and I'm sure your boyfriend won't mind indulging you in that regard.
Leaving a tampon in during sex is a sure-fire way to having painful and unsatisfying sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2008): yes def take tampon out as it could get lodged in a place she wouldnt want it lodged and it could course harm to her. 2nd of all DO NOT GIVE ORAL TO HIM UNLESS YOU REALLY WANT TO. if you want to try practiseing on things like i dont know a banana as silly as it sounds or even better if he really loves you and you can trust him to ask him, then ask him to guide you through it.
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