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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi.I don't know when i'm acting over the top around guys, i want to look funny and sweet.. but i think i might look demented. I don't think i look nice, i tell friends that i look fat when i'm skinny as a stick.It's hard to say that i like them, and it's hard to say a 'yes' to a date.I really need help!Can someone lend advice???Please? Reply to this Question
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reader, doe44  +, writes (23 August 2008):
Easy. Forget them . Be busy loving yourself and caring for yourself, and making yourself happy. and the whole world will follow you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): (smile) Sounds like you have the "jr.high confusions". It is common, hon. Everybody has them. Even guys and "hot babes". Don't worry too much. Just try to be your natural self...warts and all. You will be liked for being friendly and honest, not for any role you try to act. When you get to know different guys better you will have a better idea of what they like and are interested in and how to talk with them. They are not really so complicated or hard to understand. They probably like the same music, movies, etc. that you do. They may be more into sports, cars, and "mechanical gadgetry" than you are, but no big deal. That is just the way they are. You will find you really have a lot in common. Best wishes. Tom
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