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I don't know how she'd take it if I tell her how I feel about her!

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Question - (18 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2007)
A female Ghana age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I have this very good female friend I am seriously attracted to. We find each other beautiful and appreciate each other's friendship. However, I crave some intimacy with this friend. Even though she's said she loves me, I don't know how she'd take it if I tell her how I feel about her. I don't want to lose her. what do I do?

Worried Girl

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007):

You should always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know. You should regonize that if you do try you may fail, but if you don't try you're guaranteed to fail.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (18 September 2007):

penta agony auntYou have to weigh the possible benefits against the possible loss. If you tell her and she bolts, you've lost the friendship. If you don't tell her and you keep things as you have, you may lose the opportunity for more than friendship.

You know her better than we do. Do you think she'd be open to a lesbian relationship? If she's absolutely straight, then I recommend getting over her and keeping the friendship.

Does she know that you're gay? That would be a great place to start.

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