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writes:My boyfriend and I have gone out for just two months, everything seemed fine until the last week where we saw less of each other. When I tried to call and talk to him he seemed uninterested to talk. We broke up with each other yesterday. But I still want to be with him. I talked to him last night expressing our feelings for each other that we both have for each other still. I'm not 100% sure why he wanted to break up. I'm suspecting he probably likes another girl, but how could he... after liking me for over a year in the past. I don't know how I should get back with him. Should I even bother? I'm starting to feel heartbroken even though when I was completely fine while I was talking to him. Please help.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 All you can do is be polite to him and get on with hanging with your friends or playing your sport. It will be hard but it will get easier I promise :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies, Danielepew and YummyMummy. I havent talked to him recently at all. Maybe a break is good. However the problem now is that we hang out with the same group of friends. I mean, I do have other friends but this is like tearing me apart from the relationship I have with those friends as well. Also, we are both in a team sport, so there will be no doubt I will still be seeing him throughtout the summer until we head back to school in sept.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 July 2007):
I agree with danielpew- you have shown you want him back, and if he loves you and wants to be with you you should let him come to you now. Not chase him around.
If he's interested in someone else then you don't want to be with him anyway as it opens a whole can of worms! Let him be for now and you try to get on with your life and have fun with friends/family.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 I think you've already shown you want him back. The phone call should be enough for this purpose. I think you should wait form him to contact you again.
I also think some advice is in order.
You say you expressed "your feelings for each other that we both have for each other still". When we're in love, sometimes we transfer our feelings to other people. I have no doubts you love him, but maybe he doesn't love you as much as you do. Particularly since he seemed uninterested.
I know this is the hard part of it all, but I think you should try to see things clearly. Maybe he's not in love with you anymore, even if he liked you for a year.
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