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writes: I want to know how he is doing, but afraid that it would send mixed signals or open healing wounds.I ended us and it wasn't very pleasant, it was very verbally brutal. SInce then he went ahead and sold his house without a plan, when he put it up for sale, I think he had expected that we would be living together again, even though all the while I kept telling him I didn't want to. There are many reasons why things didn't work out for us, but the just of it is that he was constantly blaming me for our doomed relationship, blamed me for not trying, but that is just not all completely true.He hasn't tried contacting me in over two weeks now. I would like to know how he is doing, I even want to help if I can. I want to know if he's ok, I want to know where he plans on going, I just want to know. I still care about him, and I do worry about him. But maybe it be best I leave things as is. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (31 March 2006):
 You should just leave him alone, you can't just walked out then walk back into someones life.
You are the one who broke up with him, so give him the time he needs to get over you.
Break ups are never easy. if you contact him now he many not get over you, he may hold on to this idea of hope that you two will get back together. let him be, its hard but its best for him in the long run.
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (29 March 2006):
 I think you should leave him alone for now, sounds like he's gone off to lick his wounds and get over you.
You say you ended it, do I sense a bit of guilt there?
Maybe he feels having no contact with you will enable him to move on more quickly. Having made the decision to end the relationship you have to now accept that his life and what his plans are for it are none of your concern now.
If he wants you in his life I'm sure he'll contact you.
Best wishes.
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