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*eachbabe
writes:DEAR AUNTS HELP ME =[Last weekend I didn't attend a party because I was busy helping my bff plan her wedding.the party i was suppose to attend, my ex was there..the host told me everything. my ex asked the host if i was coming? also the host and my ex got into a long conversation about "me" and my ex even stated that "i hate him, and he is goin to leave if i am coming.." lmao also my ex also went into details " the reason why we broke up" omg i dont get it.. but the host told him to grow up and i dont hate him and ect.. and he was shock. ( ps: i was the one that dump him months ago)Why would he bring this up? Also his close guy friends stated that I was the best gf he ever had and ect ..lolAlso the funny thing he is suppose to be dating this other girl now..don't know if they are offical or what. But this girl ask one of my homies the other night if he knew who i was and was asking questions about me.. and when my homie ask why? and her reply was " just asking.." also this girl stated that she never been to his house or met his family and ect..lolBut, I have tons of times.. and his family and mother loves me, she is a real sweetheart =] whenever i see his mom anywhere she always hugs me n tells me hi. his mom is also cool with my mom as well..anyways Okay.. this is weird..I dont even know this chick but she is questioning people about me.help.. whats up with all of this!?
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reader, beachbabe +, writes (20 August 2009):
beachbabe is verified as being by the original poster of the question birdynumnums & Sincerely Yours :
Thanks you for your feedback =]. Also I would like to add that even thou I have dump him, I can never hate him or be enemies with him.. he was a kool bf, we had great funny memories & I could talk to him about diffcult times in my life without feeling shy or uncomfortable. The reason we broke up is because I hate drama and being stressed about foolishness .. also I wanted to focus more in my college education without bf gossip stress..but I do still have feelings for him, i really loved him because I know how nice he was and always there for me when i needed him. =]
No sex was involved i'm still a virgin, so we actually loved each other. He understood my morals about sex & ect.
but, I Think we are better off as being just friends, but i do still have feelings for him kinda, not a day goes by without me thinking about him at least once for the day...
Addition:
One night I went to the club with my girls, i was looking hot with my new dress and heels =] & while i was in the club my friend told me that my ex was in here also, all I said was ok kool. But, that night i didnt say a word to him, he was on the other side of the club & i wasnt going to run over there and say HI! lol. he was starring at me soo hard when i walked in, when i was dancing with my girls & talkin to my guy friends. And the weird thing is his friends ditched him & came over where we was & started partying with my crew. i dont know where he went that night.
recently:
Late last night I was online chatting to one of my friends in Japan, and my ex randomly pop up..
saying stranger.
then he said i never see you anywhere, I always see your family and friends but not "you".
(ps: i dont think i have seen in about a month or so )
I did reply in a polite manner =] sayin i been busy with summer classes n traveling which is 100% true =]. Then he ask me how was my vacation & ect. the convo was normal.
Okay that's all.. feedback please, thanks again so much ladies =0)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2009): Easy.. she's jealous and wants to know what she's up against. it's normal to be curious about someone's ex that you're in to. She's trying to be descrete and pretend she's "just wondering" but she's actually desperate to know about this amazing ex and if she stands a chance. Especially since you're the one who did the breaking up, not vice versa.
~Sy.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 The girl asking questions likes your ex.
He is still hurt and therefore gossips in order to save "face" because you dumped him.
You are a smart girl and I suspect that you already know this. It's a great sign that his Mom likes you and that you don't sink low enough to gossip! But, you have to be realistic and realize that people will ALWAYS talk.
I'm more concerned about the host blabbing everything back to you - they didn't do you any favors by telling you all this and hurt you by doing so - so that was kind of mean. Rule of thumb is that you should try to protect and keep away things that will hurt your close friend, especially if they probably mean nothing. Did the host really think that repeating it back to you was kind? Pumping other people for information is a bit immature... and repeating it is a good way to lose friends.
Anyways, how come YOU are writing about all of this? Methinks you still have feelings if you are still wasting this much energy on him, what he is saying and who might be interested in him...
If you ARE still interested, then now is the time to speak up - it sounds like the other girl does really like him! Just a thought...
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