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female
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30-35,
*lesana(:
writes:Ok so there's this guy i met about a year ago over myspace and my friend cesar knew him too, the guy who i met online lived out of town but he was like completely obsessed with me so him and my friend made plans for him to come down to try to hook us up. But the thing is I didn't like him, at all! and i was horrible to him and i even kissed another guy in front of him but for him it was love at first sight! i just don't understand it so it's been a year since we met and we still talk but things have gotten worse. I try nicely to tell him i don't love him back and i am very blunt about it too, i've even told him off and stopped talking to him before and it doesn't even faze him! He's suicidal and say's i'm the only reason he's living and i don't know i just can't take this anymore! he's an embarrassment to me! he tells of all my guy friends, he tries to control me, and even though we're not dating he still gets mad if he knows i'm with another guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): whoa that is not healthy, he is border line stalking you or i dnt even no what he is but it isnt good. talk to your parents or a family friend or google things that you can do to help him stay away. like changing your phone number and email adress .things liek that. tell him he needs to leave you alone so you can have your own space and life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): Block him, never talk to him again, and do NOT believe in his threats to kill himself. If he is suicidal it is NOT because of you, but because of his OWN mental issues that HE needs to deal with. He is not your problem. Get him out of your life and tell this so-called other friend of yours to never try and hook you two up ever again and to never even talk about you to him, and if this friend of yours dont respect that, he's not a friend worth keeping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): OMG sweetness guys like this one can be dangerous. Best thing to do is to report him immediately to the police. He should keep a distance from you. He is a creep and might turn to be a dangerous creep. Do not waste time hun. Report him at your earliest convenience.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 I totally agree with caring guy. Cut all contact. This can only get worse from here on and we don't want to be reading another stalker statistic!
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reader, jc82 +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Unfriend him on every social site you are on, don't call/text/email him, don't respond when he calls/texts/emails you. Don't even read what he sends. Refuse to talk about him with other people. Thats how you finish this.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 March 2010):
Cut all contact with him. He is unstable and is now causing you grief. Cut all contact completely.
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