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writes:I don't know how to voice my opinion well doing the deed. I also don't know how to take control. I can see that it is making my bf is a little bit disappointed that he has to do all the work. How can I, get more confidence and since he is my first for everything what is the best way to learn how to be even a little bit better? Or just what kind of things I can do so I can feel sexy and confident? Even though he makes me feel beautiful. I just don't have the confidence
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2011): try masturbating at home. you can find out what you like and how to turn yourself on, then when you and your boyfriend are having sex try telling him what makes you feel good like when you're doing it. giving him directions is like you taking control and telling him what you like.
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reader, Miss.Knowitall +, writes (9 May 2011):
Miss.Knowitall is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank-you I does help a bit :D
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (9 May 2011):
 Hi You dont say weather your BF has said anything about this or not, or weather this is all your lack of experience? either way if this is your first time for everyting then I am sure he will understand. None of us are perfect when we fist start our sex life, it takes time and experience with eachother. Never do anything your not comfortable with, just to please a man either.If your a little shy, why not try dimming the lights to a warm glow, this will always give you a sensual look. or light afew sented candles, and put them evenly around the room. A little soft music playing, nothing too soppy or mushy cause this could actually out you off. and then just gently run your fingers up and down his body, this will give him a warm tingling sensation, and relax you both,also this will put you in control of his body, then just go with the flow, it will happen how its supossed to happen. Or you could right him a little note just simply saying "tell me what makes you feel good, and i'll try my best to make it happen ":) this way he will have fun explaning to you, and you can both have a great night together. you could also try blindfolding him, with a silky scarf, so he cant see where your going next, this will put you in control, this will make him beg you for it :D ( dont forget to use protection) you dont want the sound of tiny feet running around in 9 months :D I hope this has helped you
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