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writes: My boyfriend and I have recently began dating. Now that I am meeting his friends etc I can't help but be jealous of his very hot female friends. I have always been self conscious of the way I look. Although lots of people tell me I'm pretty, I still don't think I am. I can't help but think that he will dump me for one of his friends. I don't think he would ever cheat but it bothers me so much (I haven't said anything to him)!What can I do to not think this way? Or should I be worried? Help!
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reader, Hugglebuddy +, writes (28 December 2005):
 Well is he with one of his 'hot' female friends, no his with you! If he didn't think you were gorgeous he would be with one of them but is he no. I bet you all his girl mates are as jealous of you as you are them, unless your Paris Hilton all girls have like a fitted in gene of being self concious and we always think their are prettier girls than us but at the end of the day is he with these 'prettier' girls? NO his all yours and the fact that his let you meet all his girl mates means he is showing you off to everyone, feel proud he obviously does, im sure your perfect the way you are, good luck and the feeling won't go so you just got to put it to the back of your mind and think his with me :)x
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reader, not again +, writes (25 December 2005):
i bet all his hot female friends are subconscious about there looks too!! I mean, come on... aren't most chicks?! But the differnece is- confidence. confidence is really attractive. Be confident. focus on your positive features and be proud of what you look like and who your are- there's nothing more attractive than a girl who stands tall in her body and doesn't apologise for who she is.
It seems to me you're focussing on the negative- haven't lots of people told you you're attractive?! Listen to them- believe them! And don't let somtheing in your head ruin your relationship. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2005): I know what you are going through. I felt the same way when he told me about his friend that he has. So I started putting myself down and thinking that he wouldn't want to be with someone like me. but I relized if the guy dosen't like you for who you are and what you look like then he's not worth it. and you can't compare your self to other people, you are your own person. and I'm sure the guy wouldn't break up with you because of your looks or if another friend is hotter. he should like you for you.
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reader, ambiguous +, writes (24 December 2005):
Anyone that values physical appearance over the character of one's heart is one that you should not even waste time with. Beauty fades and charm dims, but they that can look beyond the boundaries of time are the ones you should hold onto. Do not even consider it your part to feel like you have to be secured in your appearance, this is so far beyond true love, focus more on what is beautiful inside and him who will also see this beauty.
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