A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi, i dont know what to do, i dont feel i fit in properly with my friends, and ive felt like this for a while, i tried to hang out with other people and i invited my friend to do so aswell but she just made me feel bad, i dont feel i fit in with anibodi now and i have not reali got ani friend who i can share my problems with and who i can properly talk to. am i in the wrong? have i done ani thing wrong? age 14, Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, birdynumnums +, writes (13 April 2007):
Hi Honey,
My heart is breaking for you. I remember times when I felt the same way. You haven't done anything wrong. You are at a very difficult age. Your body is maturing and hormones are racing. All of the people around you are maturing at different rates, some are more mature and some people are less mature than you. I think you should try to expand your group of friends. Join a few new clubs or try a new sport. Get more involved in your own life and the things that you find interesting. By doing this, you meet more people who are into the same kind of things that you are and you get to develop some more interests at the same time. I'm sorry that you are feeling lonely right now, I'm sure it's just a phase and that it will soon pass. You should also talk with your parents about this, I'm sure that they will be concerned and have a few ideas to help you. We all remember difficult times growing up and they probably do too. They love you very much and will try to help you find your way. I hope this helped Honey and Take Care of yourself. Good Luck with whatever you decide to join!
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