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writes: Why is it that everytime I have sex I don't feel anything! I just don't know what sex feels like! Please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2006): Try expiermenting on your own and see what you like best, what parts of you down below get you going...Then when it comes time to have sex with your man you can tell him how to move or to touch you in a certain way down below. I know what you mean right now. I had the same problem and then my husband bought a vibrator and expiermented with that and even used it while having sex with him. It got me going for sure! Now I could feel something even if I dont have my vibrator because I know what gets me going and what parts are most sensitive down below for my husband to touch. I hope this helps! Good Luck!
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reader, Smiler +, writes (12 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well hi sweetie you poor thing... maybe your just not relaxed enough to enjoy it each time your trying sex if your pre occupied thinking why am i not enjoying this? is something wrong with me? am i doin something wrong? then you are not gonna enjoy the moment honey my advice to you would be before the next time yopu have sex try having a nice hot bath chill yourself right out stop thinking of the above things and unwind completely yeah then light some candles in your room play some chillin music... then slowly work into sex try getting your partner to give you an all over body massage naked of course but avoiding the obvious parts of your body that will turn you on then he will be gaggin for you and you should also be nice and relaxed, then try foreplay before leading up to sex experiment with each other explore each others bodies find out what turns each other on kisses all over each others bodies oral sex etc... then when your both really turned on then lead on to sex maybe you take control use varied postions try you on top or rear enrty etc.. all of the above should help you get the feeling we all get during sex where its passionate, erotic, intense but above all filled with love for each other and enjoyment of the act and the moment, try not to just have sex.... what i mean by that sweetie is think of it as making love to each other rather than just plain andd simple sex because honey its so much more than that....
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, sibaan +, writes (12 June 2006):
 you need to try different positions to feel something. some women just battle to feel it but different positions can make you feel alot....
good luck!
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